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the cats out of the bag
Nov. 12th, 2025 08:55 am oh man, what have we done....
continuing our practice in talking to each other, we have set up some ground(ish) rules. namely, we have had alot of problems with one person starting to date someone, and then the others not really being on board. it has been....a painful learning curve. i think it will continue to be a painful learning curve. if one of us wants to date someone, they have to come out and say it THEMSELF, now. cant act as the whole body.
does anyone have experience with the body and the mind being "fronted" by different people? this thing keeps happening, where one of us is crying just uncontrollably, but its the not the..."persistent i" fronter, if that makes sense. the person feeling the emotions, thinking the stuff. the fronter is just sitting here, wondering how to get the other alter to stop crying so hard, but has no real control over what the body is doing.....weird stuff.
weird stuff should be the motto for our whole life, haha. im going to make another post with general life updates, i want this one to just be about plural stuff.
We joined a few discord servers in the hopes of getting to talk to people as individuals more, but we dont really mesh well with the discord crowd, we fear. same with plural kit. its so tedious to set up, and then that "APP" thing floating next to our names........feels kind of demeaning. of course, one of the littles has had a blast with it so,,,yknow. on that vein, we do really like this pluralkit minecraft mod, switchy. or at least the idea, we havent tried it out ourself.
next up, expect more book updates. and school stuff.
continuing our practice in talking to each other, we have set up some ground(ish) rules. namely, we have had alot of problems with one person starting to date someone, and then the others not really being on board. it has been....a painful learning curve. i think it will continue to be a painful learning curve. if one of us wants to date someone, they have to come out and say it THEMSELF, now. cant act as the whole body.
does anyone have experience with the body and the mind being "fronted" by different people? this thing keeps happening, where one of us is crying just uncontrollably, but its the not the..."persistent i" fronter, if that makes sense. the person feeling the emotions, thinking the stuff. the fronter is just sitting here, wondering how to get the other alter to stop crying so hard, but has no real control over what the body is doing.....weird stuff.
weird stuff should be the motto for our whole life, haha. im going to make another post with general life updates, i want this one to just be about plural stuff.
We joined a few discord servers in the hopes of getting to talk to people as individuals more, but we dont really mesh well with the discord crowd, we fear. same with plural kit. its so tedious to set up, and then that "APP" thing floating next to our names........feels kind of demeaning. of course, one of the littles has had a blast with it so,,,yknow. on that vein, we do really like this pluralkit minecraft mod, switchy. or at least the idea, we havent tried it out ourself.
next up, expect more book updates. and school stuff.
